Kids and old people are my favorite subjects. Now you know.

Here’s how I approach photographing children, whether they’re mine or yours.

1. Observe

Just wait to see what happens.

Capture real-time stuff, rather than trying to control the situation. See the lighting, the composition, the expressions and interactions, and then get snapping.

2. Anticipate

Notice specific moments that spell cuteness.

Waking up from a nap, pretending “corn swords,” seeing the climax of a movie, climbing on the trampoline, etc.

3. Question

Ask rather than command.

Kids already are told what to do a million times a day, so I try to give them a break during photoshoots. If I missed capturing something I really liked or want a different perspective, I’ll say something like, “Oooo, that was super cool! Can you do that again?!” Or if I’m wanting them to look at me and smile I might say, “Hey, can you do some crazy faces for me? Nice! What about a super sad one? Oh, so sad. And now a normal smiley one!” etc.

4. Play

Join in the fun.

Crawl, sit, run, dance, get down on their level, see things from their perspective. This makes things more enjoyable for you and the kids, and it can give you creative ideas and artistic angles you wouldn’t have noticed otherwise.

5. Show

Let them see the photos and shoot some too.

Show your face and hands while you’re interacting with your kids, and then raise the camera when you’re ready to fire. Put them at ease by being clear and honest and peak their interest in what you’re doing but letting them participate (either by shooting a few images or just seeing them on the back of the camera).

Bonus Tip: Praise

Thank and encourage them.

No matter who it is you’re photographing, be thankful for their time and attention. Ooze admiration. I say things like, “Good job, buddy! Thanks for letting me take your picture!” or “Dude, that was awesome!” I also like to hand out stickers or my wooden nickels as little rewards. Nothing major, but a quick word of encouragement or a small token goes a long way. Be thankful!

Keep Smiling,

—J

5 Tips for Photographing Kids